SOULMATES – MORE THAN ONE?

Can you have more than one soulmate in a lifetime?  Soulmates is a term that is battered around a lot, romanticized by the media and in my opinion mostly misunderstood.  You have found your “soul mate” when you meet someone else on life’s journey that meets up with you in mind, body & soul.  That is the most complete type of love relationship, truly as good as it gets!

Often times you meet someone and have a fantastic sexual relationship, your bodies just seem to dance to the same tune, your touches are electric, you can’t keep your eyes or hands off your partner, every hormone is ignited.  But after the new wears off you find that you are not really on the same wave length mentally or emotionally.

Maybe there is a person that you enjoy going head to toe with on a mental level. You can spend hours discussing any subject, having a lively debate or solving a complex problem. You just seem to be able to get inside that other person’s head and share so much, surely you are soulmates.  But, then again, the sex isn’t all that great and after awhile it even starts to mess up the good mental times you had together.

The emotional level is the hardest part, closest to soul-mating.  More than in any other way, we all grow at different emotional levels.  It is a well known fact that women generally grow-up emotionally faster than men, maybe that is because we are the child-bearers and the primary caretakers.  Most men seem to do their emotional growing at mid-life, so there may be a wide difference in most relationships.

When we finally find a relationship that combines all of the elements of mind, body & soul we have come closest to what is “soulmates“.  Can we have more than one in a lifetime?  Only if you are very very lucky!

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TOO OLD FOR SEX?

I hope I never get too old for sex – I really don’t think there is a sexpiration date!  Recent studies show that a majority of seniors still enjoy sex and that about 50% of people in their 70′s are still sexually active.  Probably those statistics would be higher if the availability was easier or more well known.

We probably all remember when it seemed especially repulsive to think of our own parents actually “doing-it” and certainly we never suspected that our grandparents still could.  I wonder if kids today still think that way or has TV and the Internet made them more realistic and worldly?  We may not have model-like figures anymore, older bodies don’t bend the same way as before and the occasional cramp in the leg can get kinda embarrasing, but the feelings are still there and it is a healthy, natural thing to be sexually active in our senior years for as long as we are physically able.

Senior dating sites offer some possibilities but how forward should you be in your quest for a sex partner?  I have viewed a few of the online grannie porn sites and they are a bit too graphic for me.  Pornography has always been mostly for men who are far more visual than women.  I guess a few smart smut operators have finally learned to produce some porn that appeals more to women but I’m not much of a late-night, turn-on-the-tube type so haven’t really searched it out.  Actually, it might be a real turn-on to view it with a sex partner, even granny & grandpa might could learn some new tricks.

Come to think of it, although hopefully it will be a long way off, I wonder if they allow conjugal visits in nursing homes?

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Hotel Sex

Just the name “Hotel Sex” conjures up great fantasies and memories! My late husband always teased that I got horny just by turning the key in the lock (back before they had little plastic cards). Somehow being away from the familiarity of home can lead to expectations of a more exciting sexual experience. Vacations are how we renew ourselves, relieve the stresses of everyday life and indulge in elicit pleasures, and that is a good thing!

Maybe it’s the honeymoon thing! Expectations of blissful sex on your wedding night has been a dominate theme throughout the history of mankind and is celebrated in many different ways in almost all cultures. Even as a young girl I swooned at the thought of my future husband carrying me over the threshold in my white wedding gown and making mad passionate love to me just like in the movies of the 1950′s! (And then we would live happily ever after….NOT!)

But sometimes the opposite may occur. I once had a long-time lover who dreaded traveling and it was always a bone of contention between us. The few times I did manage to drag him on a trip, the sex was mediocre or non-existent. His experiences had been different, his prior associations with hotel sex were not pleasant and he was never able to overcome that. I always felt sad that we were not able to connect in that way, he would tease me about it and promise the moon but it never really happened for us.

Hotel advertisements allude to the fact of romance and sexual adventure and I bet a hotel chamber maid could tell a lot of stories about the secrets of hotel sex. I am sure we all have some of our own memories to explore. One of my favorite memories is staying in a historic old hotel in a mining town in Northern Nevada. It actually is not open to the public except on rare occasions, but we were able to make special arrangements for one night. There are only 6 actual hotel rooms and we were the only guests. We ran around the halls naked and frolicked in the music room, oh what a night to recall!

If you have a similiar hotel sex experience you would like to share, please feel free to do so in the comments, you are welcome to do so anonymously.

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